Paul Rutkowski A chef in Leeds Abused My Wife Updated

[dafunkonline]

[quote:400678a5c8]He started texting her again the week of the 16th October2007[/quote]
?
do you mean 2006 ?

i cant judge this person b’coz i know only your version of that story…
but it seems that paul rutkowski isnt a good person…
save your wife’s honour, if youre sure yours wife innocent…
sometimes man have to pass over in silence, but sometimes man have to pass the border of violence…

[Sir Sid]

Yes sorry I meant 2006.

No he is not a nice person. It appears that he cannot accept his responsibilities.

My wife and I have discussed this over the last 6 months. I have used many different forms of getting her to open up about it, mainly so she doesn’t beat herself up over her stupidity in falling for who seems a very cunning and calculating person.

I used a ploy about getting her to put down her thoughts on the computer. So that she tells herself the truth of how she felt before, during and after. I had some software on the computer which used keystroke recognition and snapshots so I could read them. They were the truth and that is what I have written here. So yes she is innocent. The only thing she is guilty of is stupidity.

[dafunkonline]

[quote:e721912a82]I had some software on the computer which used keystroke recognition and snapshots [/quote]
its not fair…
if you trust your wife dont use that ugly ploy..

[Uxbridge]

Dear Sid,
Could you consider that’s you who is naive and manipulated?

By the way.
Sleeping with somebody’s wife might be immoral and harming, but it’s not a crime for the Christ sake! You may not bring sombody’s personal data to public just because you hate him.
I don’t take his side anyhow. I understand your feelings, but seeking a personal revenge by involving a publicity seems to me not being fair actually.

[rollingstone]

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[Sir Sid]

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Uxbridge wrote:

Dear Sid,
Could you consider that’s you who is naive and manipulated?

By the way.
Sleeping with somebody’s wife might be immoral and harming, but it’s not a crime for the Christ sake! You may not bring sombody’s personal data to public just because you hate him.
I don’t take his side anyhow. I understand your feelings, but seeking a personal revenge by involving a publicity seems to me not being fair actually.

Maybe not a crime in the legal sense, but a crime on honest, decent people and humanity itself. \it is clear he has no morals. Do you not think it is just to protect other gullible, susceptible women from a person like this (I don’t use the term MAN, he isn’t one).

His personal data ceased to be his own the day he chose to set out and abuse my wife the way he did.

No I am not naive and manipulated. I have met his type many times. As soon as my wife began telling me about him I knew the type of low life he is.

If you can justify his actions, hand on heart and not think he has committed a SIN then tell me. Maybe he will read these and have the guts to face me and tell me I am wrong. I don’t think so. He is gutless and spineless. He is sat thinking he has got away with abuse. Well he is very wrong.

[Sir Sid]

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dafunkonline wrote:

[quote:275c23cb77]I had some software on the computer which used keystroke recognition and snapshots

its not fair…
if you trust your wife dont use that ugly ploy..[/quote]

It was only the once and she is now aware of it. She understands my reasons. I knew she would not be able to face the truth directly. It was just a way of gettingher to admit to herself, as I could direct it all to her. She has locked and blocked things away for too long in the past. I am now helping her to begin looking at things honestly and openly. The software no longer exists on the computer. I certainly wasn’t proud of doing that, but it was the only way.

[Sir Sid]

Over 500 people have read it. Wonder how many of those know him…….

[tonieja]

Sorry to hear about the whole series of incidents. I hate this type of guys.

However in my opinion, your wife has some problems with justifying what is right and what is wrong. Therefore I risk the statement that he has taken an advantage of a person who is mentally weak. As you said she did not want to have sex with him. Call the police. They will find him probably much quicker than you do. That will also save problems to the next possible victim – apparently you care about that.

PS:
my answer is based on assumption that the story is true and complete.

[Mariusz79]

I understand your anger. But why did you put online your wife’s photos? (It is your wife, am I right?) Are you still together?
If I were you I would kick this guy’s ass – that’s all

[Mariusz79]

anyway – have you been in Polish Army? – it’s a waste of time (and men at his age had to spend 2 years, and in case of sea army 3 years of the best part of life). now it is I think 9 months, but many people don’t want to waste time – it doesn’t mean they are cowards – they don’t want to be slaved for a year.
Do you know what a young man can learn in Polish army? to shoot? no, to fight? no
they can learn to clean WC with toothbrosch, to drink vodka etc

[Shaman]

it’s a con!!!

noone normal would ever share such a situation with thousand of others readers, described the story in such a detailed way and gave pictures of own wife :?:?
Its got to be a psycho!!!

[Amona]

That fuckin freak should express himself and his wife in "Please Bang my Wife" show ! ! ! 😆

[Mariusz79]

they propably did the photos together, and now he shows the photos for wider group of people – it is sick. How would you feel if she show your naked photos?
what was it was, she did wrong, but it is between you and her. you could write about it but why with photos?

[Sir Sid]

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Amona wrote:

That fuckin freak should express himself and his wife in "Please Bang my Wife" show ! ! ! 😆

GONE. BAD DAY YESTERDAY.

[Autor]

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